Some people just don't know any better!

Alrighty it's 11:22pm on Sunday and I feel pretty good about myself right now!.....NOT! I honestly don't know what goes on in people's heads sometimes, probably nothing since I don't think they actually think before they open their big fat rude traps! I know I'm a fat tub of lard, you don't have to tell me! Jeez! My mother's friend just made a comment that wasen't very nice, but she honestly didn't think it was rude!!! She must be from fuckin Louisdale..Home of the Rude people!!! lol My mother and I were talking about how bad I have arthritis in my legs (had it since I was 10 years old) and she was recommending certain meds and shit and that's fine. I got a glass of water and was just walking out the door and she says this "Oh Melanie your legs will only get worse with the weight on" I turned around and hoped she didn't say what I thought she said so I said "WHAT?" and she repeated herself. She truely didn't think it was rude, she kept a concerned face and thought it was good advice. WHAT THE FUCK??? My mother just looked at me cause she knows how much of a bitch I can be and I don't give a shit who you are, say something rude....yer gonna get it right back! But for my dear mother's sake I gave her a little glare, turned around and said "THANKS!" in a sarcastic, slightly bitchy way. Ughh I just don't know sometimes. I don't care how fat you are, I would NEVER, EVER, EVER make rude comments like that...not only would I NOT do it to your face, I wouldn't even do it behind your back. It's probaly the meanest thing in the world, it makes you wanna go commit suicide and the people who say it sometimes don't even know it bothers you. What gives? I find it's mostly older folk who say things about people's weight. Not sure why, but they do. Take Jean-Guy's father for instance, hell the first time I met him he was driving me from Sydney to Louisdale (He was in Sydney doing some arrands so I hitched a ride) we were chatting about sports and how I used to play hockey and soccer so he says "so did ya find ya put on all that weight since ya stopped playing sports?" I wanted to jump out of the car and pray about 15 cars run me over. Nice eh? And keep in mind, this is my back then "new" boyfriend and it's the first time I've met his father, so this man doesn't even know me!!! He's made plenty rude fat comments since, I can recall a time we were having supper at their (jean-guy's parents) house and I can't remember exactly what he said but it was another RUDE comment about me being a lard ass and I stopped what I was eating, dropped my fork, cried and stormed out of the house. Mother Theresa (jean-guy's mother) and Jean-Guy nearly died. They didn't know what to do, I cried for hours and the worst part was that I was working for Jean-Guy's dad and I had to face him the next day. Even though we worked side by side, I never spoke a word to him for 2 weeks. It was horrible. So this is just a little note to warn the brain dead fucks out there who feel the need to tell people they are over-weight, fat, chubby, need to loose a few pounds, wow you put on the weight shit talk to think twice about opening their own BIG FAT MOUTHS!!!!!! :)